Its so easy for people to get on social media and try to convince everyone that they have the perfect marriage. If you think a perfect marriage is a real thing you are sadly mistaken. I know there are times my wife wants to punch me in the throat and there are times that I would gladly return the favor! Sometime we irritate each other like we’ve been married for 20 years but we ALWAYS love each other like we’ve been married for 60. We try to make each other better people. We don’t try to change each other but we love each other for who we are. Find someone who emphasizes your best traits and works with your shortcomings. Lord know I often fall short, but she loves me anyway. I always hear people say their spouse is their best friend. Well my wif and I have LITERALLY caught fish together, drank beer together, killed deer together, laughed together, cried together, sat around a fire together, but most importantly prayed together, made a child together and are raising that child together in a loving home that knows God. I wouldn’t trade that for any b.s. storybook life. A perfect marriage cannot exist because there are no perfect people but we are two imperfect people who are perfectly in love. We kinda kick ass at marriage and I know that because the days that we want to throat punch each other are few than the days that we dont. Happy Valentine’s day beautiful, I love you more than I love cake!